jessica | little angel | January 3, 2012 |
Celia Galindo | Celia | January 1, 2012 |
dulce | hola bb | December 27, 2011 |
YOSIMI CARDOSO |
Samantha Love |
Dawn |
Hey baby girl, i Just wanted to let you know that I still think of you often. I love you very much. I never met you baby girl but I love you like you are my own. I wish i could hold you and craddle you. when i hold my youngest, he is now 5 months old now. i think of you at times and look at my son and wish you had that warmth and love and I hold him close and pray to you. You are now loved by millions baby girl. Your life will always be carried on by millions. so many love you,
**R.I.P BABY BRIANNA LOPEZ**
I LOVE YOU BABY GIRL, ALWAYS AND FOREVER. I WILL MEET YOU SOME DAY, I WILL GIVE YOU LOTS OF HUGS AND KISSES.
lana |
ale |
Rebecca |
I am yet another mother, and now a grandmother, who would have been honored for the privilege of loving and caring for you Brianna. It tears my heart out to look at your beautiful battered little face. The only peace you ever knew was brought on by death, the only earthly mercy being it forever separated you from your evil and twisted abusers and allowed you to be released to God. You deserved so much and your life was so horrific. How anyone can do this to sweet, precious innocence is inconceivable. This year I became the delighted grandmother of a wonderful baby girl. Our entire family is deeply in love with her. Parents, grandparents, great grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins. All our friends too. And our dogs. Yes even they adore her. She lights up our lives. When she is coming over or I get to go see her I feel exactly as I did when I was a child at Christmas time except more so. So excited and thrilled with anticipation. I have her adorable little face on my desktop background at work. Whenever I lock my system that precious face pops up and lifts my heart with happiness. It is a delight and honor to care for her. To nuzzle and kiss and laugh and play. To make sure she is well fed., clean and dry. To look into her eyes when she's taking a bottle, conveying to her how special and important she is. How loved. This is just from one of her adoring grandmothers. Her parents and many other family members lavish love and care on her. She is loved as all babies should be loved. Our baby is adopted. From a mother who thankfully chose to have her and chose us for her. For this I am forever grateful to her. No natural child could possibly be loved more or feel more "ours". The birth mother had other children removed from her custody, there were some issues and it terrifies me to think of what could have happened to our baby. The life she could have had. We are not perfect but we love our baby so much and will always give her the best we can. We would have loved you so much Brianna. So many families across the world would have loved you so much.
What kills my soul is that you Brianna, deserved to be loved too. You could have been adopted out. You could have a brilliant smile and the leg kicking, squirming baby delight of knowing you make everyone happy and everyone loves you. You could have never known any discomfort in your babyhood outside being ready for a bottle that was coming to you, needing a diaper change while a loved one was gathering the diaper and wipes to care for you quickly. Maybe the worst being the time you'd have learned those two new little teeth meant you couldn't chew on your fingers as zestfully as when your precious little mouth was all gums. Somebody could have been bypassing the ladies department in stores, walking fast to the baby department while thinking "To heck with something for me. I'm buying something adorable for my pretty little Brianna. Somebody could have been crouched down on their achy knees to search through the baby food for some jars of what you liked best. You could have been taken to family gatherings where close family and extended family flocked to you, everyone wanting to admire and hold you at once. Someone could have taken scads of pictures of you, capturing each wonderful stage of your life, then proudly shown everyone what an awesome baby Little Miss Brianna Mariah is. You could have been picked up and hugged and kissed dozens of times a day. You could have your family members tell you over and over to say THEIR name first till you giggled and blew raspberries at them. You could have had a Mommy and a Gammy who were so in awe of you and in love with you that they'd keep holding you after you drifted to sleep because they just could not bear to put you down. Someone could have taken you to church, where from infancy you would see pictures and hear songs that taught you God loves you. You know that now baby girl. You are with the Father who loves you and will keep you safe forever. With the Holy Mother who will hold you so close, so gently and lovingly in her arms. I hope droves of angels surround you. I hope my MawMaw, Nanny, Aunt Gertie and other family angels get to hold you, play with you, make you happy. I hope Nanny might maybe stick her false teeth out at you and make a silly face because that WILL make a tiny girl giggle so hard and beg her to do it again. I hope MawMaw sits and rocks you while humming hymns. I believe she was an angel even when she was here on earth. They were so good at caring and would love to share with you. Oh, and Aunt Betty too. She was always so cool and so good at caring for her family and others. If babies can be taken fishing in heaven, she's the right gal for you. When I come home to heaven of course I want to see my family angels. And I want to see you. One of the first things I want to ask God is "Can I hold this precious baby please Father"? Rest in peace, love happiness and eternal safety sweetheart. Along with so many others, I love you Brianna. So very many of us still here on earth have made very special places in our hearts just for you. We just wish one of the many of us posting here could have loved you while you were here and kept you safe.
Ewelina Zabicka/Fumagall |
RMCN |
Kevin Sigwarth |
malinda |
Sahar |
katia |
Marie |
donna anguiano-kochie |
Tyler Maire |
Monique |
Brianna my beautiful baby girl its been a while that i had not spoken too u but i just wanting too let u know stiil on my mind and in my heart also can hear u full laughter cause u are no longer in harm way god is keeping u safe everyime i hear the rain its u leting us know u are ok ok ok & finelly ......................... u were the best thing that ur mon was blessed with but didnt derseve u baby now u have lots of love from good loveing people AROUND THR WORLD THAT LOVE U MORE THEN LIFE ITS Safe Monique loves u so very much baby baby now my nana will full u with lots of hugs and kisss so ............ good night sweet dreams bequtiful thoughts
judy |
donna anguiano-kochie |
Marie |
Shirley Yeong |
昨天,因为要找一个日剧的预告,我就用YOUTUBE去搜查。无意中看到了2002年在美国NEW MEXICO所发生令所有人都很震憾的虐婴事件。被虐待致死的是一个非常可爱才5个多月大的小宝宝,叫Brianna Lopez。 令人很震憾,很愤怒的是虐待她的人竟然是她的父母和uncle !!她被打,被咬,被捏,甚至还被性侵……….她的uncle 和父亲酒醉过后,把她抛得高高地,不伸手接着她就让她跌在地上。
这个事件发生后,有一个侦探到他们家搜索,屋子里竟然没有一张Brianna生前所拍的照片!!!于是,他就用了Brianna 死后的照片作了一点点的修改,就是把瘀伤删除掉。看起来就像睡着了一样那麽的安详,那麽的可爱。我看过了那些还没有经过修饰的相片,除了那些瘀伤,她是多麽的可爱,像一个在睡觉的小宝宝。就因为这样,我的眼泪就开始不受控制的一直流……
每当看到那些因病痛而离逝的小宝宝,我都会很难过。可是,我万万都没想过看了小Brianna的新闻和大众给她设立的网页(http://brianna-lopez.last-memories.com/)过后,我的难过却是好几倍。只要一想到她,我就会难过,就会心痛。怀着孕,不应该想这麽多不开心的,但是;就是因为我怀着孕怀着第二胎,我无法不去理会,不闻不问~!!我会问:为什麽?为什麽神给你们那麽美好的礼物,你们却把她遭塌了!!祷告的时候,我跟神说:“神呐,这个孩子很无辜,她的父母并没有好好珍惜她,爱她。您却是一个爱小孩的神,求主耶稣看顾她,她在您那里会更幸福,更快乐。”
圣经上记载,人的爱心会渐渐冷淡。是的,我看到了,这个世界,父母爱孩子的心也越来越多被自己自私的心淹没了。几乎每一天翻开报纸,都会看到弃婴的新闻。要不然就是父母亲或亲戚疏忽,造成孩子死亡的新闻。
要生孩子就要养他,爱他,教育他,这是做父母亲的责任。当然,身为孩子的也要孝顺父母,这也是应该的。爱与不爱,自己的心里是最明白。不是作秀,是真心的作。
我收藏了这个小宝贝的相片,要记念她..........她是那麽的可爱,要不是出生在这一个变态禽兽之家,她可以和其他的孩子一样的幸福快乐。
katia |
carina |